I am referring to the one in the middle, here. Doesn't get more understated-chic than this, does it?
The only other reasonable options seem to be, go big or go home. This Vera Wang number makes it seem like a wedding can be a big fat party, and not the kind of required drudgery it often becomes––especially when you are facing down the big 4-0.
This one says, I'm getting married, suckers! Let's party!